Has been, penetration?
While the all-powerful heterosexuality as the only norm is losing ground, other forms of jouissance are finally taking their share of the pie (so to speak). Yes, before, we considered masturbation , fellatio , cunnilingus or caresses as simple foreplay (when they were not simply zapped) leading to " coupling ". And to the often entirely masculine enjoyment (“ Ah? It's over? ”). Today, many other sexualities are emerging from the shadows, and orgasmic variants are brought to light. Because, as explained Maïa Mazaurette , columnist for Le Monde , who is publishing a book these days which is making a lot of talk, we must “get out of the hole and escape our narrow vision of sex ” *. So let's get out of the hole.
Frotti rubbed
“ Dry humping ”, which could be translated as “ frotti-frotta tout dressed ”, takes us back to the origins of our sexuality. This practice, we rediscover with joy and is to rub his cock, keeping his clothes against her partner, if it engages in two, or against any other object that allows us to operate our clitoris of 'happy way. Cushion, armchair, other's thigh ..., if “ humping ” remains taboo (like female masturbation in general), it is very often the first discovery of pleasure for young girls, and a very pleasant way to achieve orgasm for many women. College boys (and many much older guys) often imagine their classmates “ sticking their fingers ” to cum alone, when this stimulation is rarely the most exhilarating. As Doc Gyneco would say, long live the rub-rubbed.
Clitoral
In a Relationship, making love fully dressed is much more common than one might think (do not laugh, once again, the quest is that of orgasm and does not necessarily mean old-fashioned penetration). According to the Urban dictionnary , to indulge in “ dry humping ”, “ the penis must not come into contact with the vagina without a tissue separating them, eg boxers, panties, even sheets ”. Remember your teenage loves when, each forced to set limits, you sighed in frustration as you passionately press your bodies together. With fine clothes (exit jeans, don't carry around), silk underwear for example, try the experience of rubbing and rubbing which lets the pleasure rise, and could well lead you both to an unprecedented orgasm . You on him, in scissors, pelvis stretched against his hips, it's up to you to test the positions that bring you maximum pleasure.
A pleasure that concerns only you? Not necessarily, because men too can have some satisfaction in rubbing the tip of their penis, which is very sensitive. And then, when you know that “ humping ” is a hashtag on Pornhub , we sense that seeing the orgasm invade you should arouse in your partner if only for some eye pleasure.
* Get out of the hole. Raise your head , Maïa Mazaurette (Anne Carrière editions)
Also discover The coconut method, or how to have an orgasm for sure
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